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Belly Laughs by Jenny McCarthy
Pregnancy at times is completely ridiculous and no one recognizes
this more than Jenny McCarthy. She takes you inside her pregnancy
(and I do mean inside - hemorrhoids, constipation, vaginal discharge,
you name it) and makes you laugh at every ridiculous thing she experienced,
which you may be experiencing too. Her take on pregnancy is fresh,
outrageous, and completely honest. This is the book every pregnant
woman needs. Buy
at Amazon.com
It Could Happen to You by Martha Brockenbrough
This is an honest, funny, and sweet memoir of pregnancy and the
first year as a parent. Brockenbrough takes us along on her journey
as she lives the ups and downs of life as a new parent. It's sometimes
funny, sometimes endearing, but always entertaining. Brockenbrough
is not as outrageous as Jenny McCarthy, which is a good thing, because
her book will appeal to everyone. It could be you in this book,
for all intents and purposes, and reading someone else's first experience
with parenthood is sure to arm a new mom with insights and hope.
Buy
at Amazon.com
Knocked Up by Rebecca Eckler
If you've worried that you are a bad mother, that you didn't do
the right things during pregnancy or that you are too self-absorbed,
this is the book that will ease all your worries. The true story
of an engaged newspaper writer who finds herself unexpectedly pregnant,
Knocked Up is guaranteed to make any mother or mother-to-be suddenly
supremely confident in her mothering abilities. Eckler smokes, drinks,
and eats junk food through her pregnancy and spends all her time
obsessing over her weight. If you thought you had it bad, this is
the book that will clear your conscience. Even though you'll probably
shake your head at some of Eckler's antics, you'll still want to
hang in until the end to find out what happens. Buy
at Amazon.com
The Mother of All Pregnancy
Books by Ann Douglas
This is an excellent pregnancy starter book – a general pregnancy
book to read before you read more specialized pregnancy books. It
provides a solid, factual overview of the basics and it presents
the material in a way that is not at all scary or overwhelming.
You’ll find everything you want to know from preconception
to postpartum, including a very good section that addresses difficult
problems like miscarriage and stillbirth. Buy
at Amazon.com
Waiting for Daisy by Peggy Orenstein
Any woman who has suffered through the despair, joy, agony, sorrow, and exhaustion of infertility, fertility treatments, miscarriage, or pregnancy will be struck by this book. It is compellingly honest, heartbreakingly real, and painfully hopeful. Orenstein exactly captures what it is like to live the day-to-day rollercoaster of this kind of conception uncertainty. She has opened her soul to us and given every woman hope for a happy ending. I could not put this book down. Buy at Amazon.com
Fiction
The Baby Trail by Sinead Moriarty
This is the first fiction book I’ve ever read that has accurately
portrayed what it is like to cope with fertility problems. The descriptions
of the tests, drugs, procedures and emotions are dead-on. Because
it is fiction, the main character has some behavior that is a bit
nutsy. For example, the woman who will go to her husband’s
office and rip his shirt off when he refuses to have sex with her
when she is ovulating is probably few and far between. However,
once you’ve taking your temp every morning for a year, peed
on sticks for half of every month, and taken drugs that make you
crazy, you can certainly see how someone might entertain such behavior.
And I very much appreciated reading a book that did not tie everything
up in a neat pink or blue bow at the end. Buy
at Amazon.com
Bed Rest by Sarah Bilston
Quinn is placed on bed rest for her last trimester. Her days on
the couch are broken up by visits from friends and relatives, increasing
tension with her workaholic husband, and her involvement in helping
a tenants' group that is being wrongly evicted by a real estate
corporation which is curiously enough, represented by her husband's
law firm. Will Quinn and her husband get through a rocky spot in
her marriage? Will her visiting mother drive her over the edge?
Will Quinn manage to help the tenants? And most importantly, will
the baby be ok? Bilston does an excellent job of portraying the
dull days of a pregnancy on bed rest. The other plot lines are interesting,
but somehow not compelling. Nevertheless, this is a fun read for
anyone who's been on bed rest or anyone who has been pregnant. Buy
at Amazon.com
Confessions of a Pregnant Princess by
Swan Adamson
If you're looking for belly bump lit, this ain't it. The pregnancy
doesn't hit the pages until almost the end. And even though the
story is sometimes a little predictable, I just couldn't help enjoying
this thick, juicy book. Venus is wooed by an Italian prince who
convinces her to come stay with him at his family home in Rome.
Supported by her two gay dads and her mom, she finds that she's
not readily accepted by his family. Love makes an appearance though
and you'll find yourself rooting for Venus. A fun read, if not exactly
about pregnancy, then at least it's a terrific romance. Buy
at Amazon.com
Diary of a Mad Mom-to-Be by Laura Wolf
If you're pregnant you know how completely insane pregnancy makes
you feel. But now you'll realize what a totally together person
you are after you read this funny, side-splitting book. I love the
diary format and the lists are fun (although you start skimming
over them after a while since they repeat items the narrator not-so-surprisingly
hasn't gotten to yet!). One gem from the book - the narrator's OB
is a "low-talker" and because she can never hear him,
she calls him "The Crotch Whisperer." To die for. Wolf
is a great story teller and this is a great book to read while pregnant.
Buy
at Amazon.com
First Comes Love...Then Comes the Hard Part by
Whitney Lyles
Still enjoying the newness of her marriage, Cate begins to think
about having a baby. After dealing with some problems getting pregnant,
she finally hits the jackpot (after spending her life's savings
on hundreds of pregnancy tests). Cate spends the first few months
in bed with terrible nausea then manages to get a bad eye infection.
Throughout the amusing descriptions of her pregnancy craziness,
she has to deal with an insane relative who has asked her to be
bridesmaid - while pregnant. This is a light and fun book, sure
to please moms-to-be. Buy
at Amazon.com
The Mommy Club by Sarah Bird
The cover and title of this book make it seem it belongs in the
"mommy lit" subcategory of chick lit. Instead, this is
a literary exploration of what happens when a woman with a difficult
past, and a cloudy future, agrees to become a surrogate mother for
her boss. The pregnancy depictions are very realistic (the author
actually wrote this while she was pregnant herself) and the characters
are fascinating. No matter what you think about surrogacy, you'll
find this to be a deeply engrossing read. Buy
at Amazon.com
The Nine Month Plan by Wendy Markham
Nina has spent half her life raising her siblings after her mother's
early death and is getting ready to fly the coop after her brother's
graduation and her sister's wedding. Somehow though, she feels a
strange attachment to her friend Joe who wants a family of his own.
In a crazy, almost hard to believe moment, Nina agrees to have a
baby for him. To meet her deadline, they decide to conceive the
old fashioned way and each finds they have feelings for the other,
but won't admit it. Nina ends up pregnant and when the news comes
to light, everyone assumes they'll be getting married. An unexpected
ending gives you the closure you seek. While the pregnancy is a
big part of the book, center stage is the romance between Joe and
Nina. Buy
at Amazon.com
Notes from the Underbelly by Risa Green
I thought this book was pretty darn funny. It accurately portrayed
a lot of the insecurities and insanities of pregnancy. A high school
guidance counselor allows her husband to talk her into getting pregnant.
One of her best friends is several months ahead of her in pregnancy
and witnessing her experience makes her a tad nervous. There are
really two plots in the book – the progression of her pregnancy
and the action-oriented plot that involves trying to get an uncooperative
student into the top-notch college requested by her parents. Following
along as the narrator experiences crying jags, hemorrhoids, maternity
clothes shopping and more is the best part of the book. Buy
at Amazon.com
Playing House by Patricia Pearson
Thirty-three and unexpectedly expecting Frannie is catapulted out
of her Sex and The City lifestyle of imperfect men, a cool job,
and an exciting social life, after throwing up in a pile of sweaters
in the Gap makes her realize she is pregnant. When her jazz musician
boyfriend takes off on a European concert tour and her visa is denied
(she's Canadian), Frannie ends up housesitting for her brother and
adjusting to the changes in her life. This very funny (particular
the imaginary 911 calls) and honest look at pregnancy and new parenthood
is enough to make you laugh and cry at the same time. Buy
at Amazon.com
The Pregnancy Test by Erin McCarthy
I expected this to be more focused on the the main character's pregnancy
- you know, your typical chick lit pregnancy book. I was surprised
to find the book read more like a steamy (emphasis on steamy) romance
with pregnancy as one of the background stories. McCarthy can write
a good sex scene for sure, but while I enjoyed the build up and
the suspense, some of it rang false for me. I wanted more plot and
more secondary characters. I think what was missing for me was the
chick part. There wasn't a lot of interaction with her friends and
there certainly wasn't enough shopping! I still recommend it though
and think it's a good entry into the pregnancy/chick lit field.
This is a good book to enjoy with a hot bath and your bunny slippers
when you need a hot love story to warm you up. McCarthy is skilled
at writing a good romance. Buy
at Amazon.com
Shopaholic & Baby by Sophie Kinsella
Becky Bloomwood Brandon is back and this time her shopaholic nature is directed
towards her unborn baby. Can't decide between strollers? Buy them all! Worried
about childbirth? Arrange for a water birth with lotus flowers and Thai massage!
Searching for the perfect birth locale? Ask your favorite boutique if you can
give birth there! Becky shops her way through pregnancy, but also is in a competition
with her husband to make the wisest investments for the baby. Will Becky's "antiques
of the future" purchases - hot trendy items she thinks will one day be
valuable - put her ahead?
All is not fun and cash register receipts though - Becky wonders if her marriage
is in trouble and if the store she is a personal shopper for is going to make
it. Zany as always, warm-hearted, and very creative when it comes to finances,
Becky is the heroine you'll want to read more and more about.
Whether you're on a tight budget for your own baby or can shop to your heart's
content, this is a great read that will make you laugh and know maybe you're
not so crazy after all. Buy
at Amazon.com
Tales from the Crib by Jennifer Coburn
Imagine finding out you’re pregnant again after several miscarriages (including
one very late one) and having your husband tell you he wants a divorce just
as you are about to share your good news. Because this pregnancy seems like
a miracle to them both, they decide to stay married for the sake of the baby
and live in the same house, but have separate lives. It may sound far-fetched,
but there are people with stranger arrangements. The narrator’s relationship
with her mother is a hoot and her portrayal of the possible problems with breastfeeding
is realistic. This is a fun read. Buy
at Amazon.com
Tales from the Crib by Risa Green
Risa Green is true to form and gives us the down and dirty truth about new motherhood
with her signature wit. Lara Stone brings home her baby Parker and struggles
with extra baby weight, nursing, explosive diapers, bonding, mommy & me
class, sex, sleep deprivation and everything else every new mom has faced. You'll
laugh out loud as you recognize yourself in her account. As with Notes from
the Underbelly, Green provides a plot to keep us reading and I thought this
plot was more compelling than in the last book, so points for Green there. Green
has been there, done that when it comes to being a new mom and she's isolated
just about every single thing that is ridiculously funny (as long as you're
not living through it at the moment). This is a must read for all new and expectant
moms. Buy
at Amazon.com
The Yummy Mommy by Polly Williams
Londoner Amy Crane becomes unexpectedly pregnant and then finds that pregnancy
leaves her unexpectedly frumpy. Envying all the MILFs she encounters, she eventually
starts on a self-improvement kick which has a negative effect on her love life.
This book takes an honest look at what it's like to be home with a baby and
a body you no longer recognize, suddenly cut off from friends and work. Amy's
struggles with self-esteem will be familiar to many new moms and the self-acceptance
and courage she finds will inspire many. Buy
at Amazon.com
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